Should I sign a pre-nup?

NJ Money Help offers advice to those submitting questions. A recent question was submitted and the team at contacted attorney, Ken White, for more information about prenuptial agreements in New Jersey.

The Question: I’m getting married to a guy from a really rich family. His parents want me to sign a pre-nup. I have a job that pays $110,000 a year and I don’t feel poor. Should I sign it? How can I protect myself?

Signing pre-nup agreement

Ken White is a family law and divorce attorney in New Jersey and immediately said that a one-on-one consultation with a family law attorney is highly recommended as the question did not give a lot of information and circumstances vary greatly from person to person. In the article Ken discusses why you might want to have a pre-nup, how a pre-nup can help/protect both parties, and some common things that are not in prenuptial agreements that most people don’t realize.

Why have a Pre-nup

When you get divorced in New Jersey – we have equitable distribution. This means that each spouse gets 50% of the property/assets acquired in the marriage. A prenuptial agreement is usually set up to protect assets in the event of a short marriage – a divorce.

Protecting Yourself By Signing a Prenuptial Agreement

The main purpose of a prenup is to ensure that whatever assets you have before you get married; you will still have if you should get divorced.

In the case of a short term marriage – a prenuptial could save both parties on legal fees.

What isn’t protected in a Pre-nup

There are many different reasons for having a prenuptial agreement but not all of those reasons can be protected in a prenup.

  • assets received before marriage (if not co-mingled) property or assets that you owned before the date of marriage, are immune from equitable distribution in a divorce
  • gifts received during a marriage – “from third parties, such as a monetary gift directly provided by his parents to him, are immune from equitable distribution whether there is a pre-nup or not.”
  • inheritances received during the course of your marriage by one spouse independently are immune from equitable distribution
  • retirement benefits you amassed prior to the date of your marriage are also considered pre-marital property – you’d keep 100 percent of that amount before marriage

About Prenuptial (Premarital or Post-nuptial Agreements in New Jersey:

The Uniform Premarital Agreement Act (UPAA) has been introduced in some but not all states. New Jersey adopted the Uniform Act in 1988.

A prenup agreement can have an expiration!

Contact us to find out more about prenuptial agreements and determine if it’s right for your circumstances.

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ABOUT Ken White, ESQ

Kenneth White is a partner in the New Jersey law firm Shane and White. Ken White’s legal practice includes Family Law and Divorce. Ken is often interviewed for